There is a Russian proverb that says, "Better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie." We do need to hear the truth, but sometimes we need to consider the way things are said when we want to have a positive impact. We need to be truthful, but in a way that invites people into the family of God!
We know that God does not tolerate lies. He cannot stand dishonesty. When we speak, we should speak the truth. However, we should speak the truth in God's love. With a focus on speaking the truth with love and care, we can invite people to be part of God's loving, forgiving family. We all need love. We all need forgiveness. We all need God's truth. As we speak to each other, let us tell the truth with a soothing tongue that invites people in without crushing the spirit!
Speak words and in ways that tell the truth and invite people into God's family!
Prayer:
Dear God-
Thank You for Your love, compassion, truth, and redemption. Help me to speak Your truth in ways that allow others to feel Your love and to become members of Your family. In Jesus I pray, amen.