Instead of trying to make our situations and circumstances change on our own, we should turn to God. God is the one that created the heavens and the earth. He is the one that can speak and make things happen. God is powerful. There isn't anything that He can't do. When we need to make "it" become something different, we should go to God in faith and prayer, then follow His will to make the situation become what it will be for His glory!
It is what it is, but God can help it become a blessing!
Prayer:
Dear God-
Thank You for all that You have presented to me in my life. Help me to always rely on Your power and wisdom to turn all situations into blessings. In Jesus I pray, amen.